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  WELCOME LOVELY💕 It's easy to preach instead of practice, it’s much easier to say than do. My friend, if you find it hard to move in silence… keep the mouth closed, you’re going to have to bite your tongue on this one! Silence is  only frightening to people who are compulsively verbalising  - WILLIAM S. BURROUGHS One of the greatest said “reals G’s move in silence like the g in Lasagne’ Is moving in silence really that overboard? I don't think so. It has more benefits than you think. Have you ever told someone something before it even happened or brought you success and in the end it took a U-turn?  That’s your sign to move in silence. The Less People Know, The Better. Have you ever told your bestie, family about something exciting happening in your life or will bring you joy, then suddenly their energy is off? They go silent? I can confirm that, that’s the love simmering down and jealousy entering the chat room. God is the friend of silence, step outside and pree ...

  As Breeny Lee would put it, know your worth then add tax.  Definitely check out her podcasts or youtube videos, if you have the chance and are willing & wanting to level up completely!  BRB, I'm becoming that high value woman 💁🏽 What a beautiful time to know your self-worth eyy?💕 What is self-worth? Self-worth is know yourself inside and out, Self-worth is having boundaries, Self-worth is standing your ground, Self-worth is knowing what you’re capable of. Because in the end it's you who gets to decide what happens next… Value, potential, worthiness and strength > Self-worth in 4 words.  Self-worth > YOU,  YOU > Potential, worthy, strength, valued, I said what I said, I meant what I said & I said what I meant. This is the 1st step to cultivating value. Once you acknowledge you want better, it’s game over but SHOW TIME! You want better, and you want more for yourself…. So be it! I totally get you.. for years I have been blaming, doubting, sa...

  The biggest learning curve ever since graduating has surely been a case of revamping to this new phase of life.  It took me a while to get out of the school headspace, there were times in the following year that i would be panicking about picking modules or forgetting to submit an assignment 😭 What I have taken from this experience is to grab everything with both hands and have fun. Consider this stagnant stage the pree’s to the night out✨ Everyone has their own path and so you need not to look in anyone else's. I'm here to remind you, you're not alone and you will do well.  Change is everywhere and in everything, by waiting your turn you'll come to realise the very thing you wanted to work out doesn't align with you any more. Acclimating to life at home again I know for many and myself that moving back home after spending the past few years away, whether that city wise or accommodation is TOUGH.  Cramming back into our small rooms that many call childhood bedroo...

  Letting Go Of The Strong Black Woman Label, I’m In My Soft Girl Era. DISCLAIMER: Ladies, everything you do is feminine. *patriarchy has left the chatroom* It really is frustrating, and I know you get it. Independent, strong black woman, It has such a tarnish on our souls, it needs to be eliminated. As resilient as we are, you should never get it twisted. The whole Strong Black Woman label is always taken out of context and I’m over it, you're over it, we over it. “The woman who can take all kinds of bullshit and not break”. It’s as if the black woman is bionic or super human, empty. It’s disturbing. It's like us asking why can't we cry too, why can't we hurt for a bit too. It’s dark history and psychological impacts are something I refuse to carry on my back and for future generations. Out doing or out reaching ourselves, survival mode with no time off, grinding all day everyday, multiple jobs and no time for vulnerability. That’s a ton of distress. Most of the time...

There's something about how confident people hold themselves that sets them apart from others. In this sense, they focus on themselves as much as they do for others. For so many reasons you should be doing this therefore, let’s get into it.   Honestly, truly it's the audacity of “focusing on yourself is selfish” for me, it sends a harsh shiver down my back. If you have friends, family who portray this attitude, I think you should consider who you have in your surroundings 👀 From my experience and from what I've humbly heard from others, at the end of every one of those conversations the thought that replayed most was “ just focus on yourself, do you, do better for you”. For so many reasons you should be doing this therefore. Keeping negative people/forces away from your divine energy. Not everyone has nice, kind intentions. In short the human nature cycle varies and can be complicated, however that doesn't mean you should have to accept it, put up with it. Not everyone...