Forgive yourself love, take a leap of faith and move forward with your life

 

Entry prompts:

I give myself permission to forgive myself for all the things that I did when I lacked self-love.

I declare myself free.

I choose to take in the lesson and the wisdom, over pain, shame and punishment.

Forgiving myself has been an on and off tug or war system with myself, mind and body and if you can relate, it is so exhausting. It’s not easy. I'll tell you that 😭Forgiving myself has been the hardest to accomplish next to discipline. 

Why is it so hard to forgive ourselves, but easier to forgive others?

We get so lost when we don't forgive ourselves, to the point where we don't realise most of our problems and mistakes come from lack of self love. Therefore, it is crucial to forgive, let go and move forward. 

I found forgiveness is a lot easier when you know the external situation of someone else. In short, it's easy to judge others from our projections so why not focus on the internal situation… forgiveness.

Forgiving myself is a huge flex! 💁🏽

One of the biggest flexes about forgiving oneself is, you truly cannot shame a person who has forgiven themselves. One thing the world and people love to impose today is being stuck in the past to keep you down, publishing all kinds to set you back, If you’re down THEY win and that goes by all memes necessary 👀

Being on a path for self improvement, fulfilment, breaking generational curses and forgiveness, has helped me do a lot of internal work towards, being aware of my situation, emotions and pain and learning to take things as they come as lessons. I believe my high self puts me in these situations to level up to the next stage in myself, after forgiveness. 

Yes, it really has helped with character development, feeling less guilt and shame towards myself, freeing my mind at last. It is like being reborn again. You see, my mistakes do not define me, not when I'm the image of god.

Depression & forgiveness 

Depression can kiss ass😄💕

A Lot of the time depression stems from a fixation on the past as well as mistakes and so it can be extremely exhausting. You have to ask yourself at conscious moments in time, “ Is this helping me grow?

Struggling with past guilt and depression always finds a way to keep with you no matter what. I view it as my dark shadow trying to bring me back to temporary depression or somewhere I do not want to be as a growing, thriving individual. Depression always keeps you replaying those low vibration moments in your mind, the soul tie you have because of the guilt you feel will not allow you to see yourself and anything plus worthy. 

Instead of punishing yourself, putting everything on you and only you, love yourself instead. The problem I find is that we don't love ourselves as much as we should to enable these changes. We aren't supposed to be struck in our pain so let this be a lesson for you to account to and comprehend.

1. Forgive yourself for past mistakes. Let these be your teachings for many days to come

2. Build up your self-worth. Gradually ovetimes your self love will multiply, indulge in books that remind you not to go hard on yourself but encourage forgiveness.

3. Stop claiming your depression. Believe in you, have faith and never give up, never surrender.

4. Apologise to yourself. For letting yourself go through things. It is true, we all have done silly things.

Instead of holding yourself back, going to the past and not forgiving yourself, learn to respect yourself by all means. When you forgive yourself this becomes a lot easier than said. Wake up everyday and tell yourself “ I love you so much’ “you’re going to do great things”, say this to yourself, in the mirror or out loud. Out loud hits the most ✨

Daily prompts for forgiveness :

Today, I forgive myself 100%. I do not want to hold on to the past.

I want to walk into my purpose with ultimate confidence.

I will love myself and will attract people who will love me.

To forgive oneself, is to pack up your past, put it away and then make room for a new season, new experiences. If your current life is full of negative history, you’ll never move forward to your destiny.

Final thoughts.

It's a beautiful day to forgive yourself, matter of fact it is always the right day to forgive oneself. When forgiveness becomes a habit, you learn and allow yourself an opportunity to redefine yourself. One thing I don't want for anyone is to feel as though they cannot forgive themselves. It has to come. We can not allow ourselves to be stuck in a place we are not meant to be, a place where you can not forgive yourself.